If someone tries to devalue you or put you down, keep yourself detached. Other people's opinions are as reliable as the Dallas Cowboys this year. Keep your sparkle. Remember who you are. You deserve respect on every level. You're not beneath anyone--you are not rank-able. No one else can define you. Watch for subtle cues... If you feel offended--a tug of devaluation, insult or disregard--the other person could be a creep, or envious, shallow... or maybe just hungry & thirsty. Whatever the case, let their stuff be their own. You know who you are. You are fabulous!!! Don't let anyone trigger your past insecurities this holiday season. MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!