Thursday, February 28, 2013

100 Traits of a Toxic People

Toxic people wreck your life. When you have trouble loving yourself, that's when you're the most susceptible to being lured into relationships with toxic people. You see, toxic people treat you like you're worthless. If you think that you are worth-less, or if you're not secure in who you are, then you will have difficulty noticing poor treatment. You will also have trouble setting boundaries against attack and protecting yourself from harm. Perhaps you agree with the toxic person's low opinion of you?

A toxic person causes pain, confusion and turmoil in the lives of those around him or her. We're all connected, so their toxic relational styles flows like poison into your heart, mind and soul. The sad part is that when it happens, when we don't know our worth, we blame ourselves.

When I began my last healing journey, the one that led to my emancipation from low self worth, to the world of self love, I found that I was surrounded by vultures. These people in my life had their way with my heart and I had no protection against it. I didn't realize that THEY were the reason I was sad and depressed. It was their treatment of me that brought me down. We are not emotionally equipped to be abused. When we're hurt, we break down. If you're breaking down, chances are it's caused by the way you allow yourself to be treated. Chances are you have a few toxic weeds you need to remove from your garden too.

Toxic people are all around. I read that 50% of people are toxic. I'm finding that to be accurate. Not everyone is friend-worthy. I've learned that if someone hurts me, disrespects me or dishonors me, that that person is not safe for me. I may love that person, but so long as they are toxic, they are not healthy for me and therefore must be pushed away or avoided altogether. It is recommended that you steer completely clear of all toxic people--UNLESS--there is no other recourse: ie: it's your mom, dad, co-worker or boss. Some toxic people must be dealt with, but when you can--RUN.

This article will give you clues to toxic people so you can avoid getting involved with them in the future. Keep away from toxic people and save yourself much grief and turmoil later.

  1. They have grandiose air about them, boasting and bragging about how wonderful that they are.
  2. Flatter you by giving you an inordinate amount of attention, money or time early-on in the relationship.
  3. Cannot admit faults or flaws. Says, "I don't have any," and means it seriously.
  4. Not true to values and norms of society; lacking character.
  5. Disrespect you, do not return your call(s), ignore you, avoid you.
  6. Refuse to deal with issues in the relationship that you bring up.
  7. Blame you when you're upset because of something they did to you.
  8. Overly agreeable at first.
  9. Try to make you feel guilty when you're concerned over something they did to disrespect you.
  10. Mimic you.
  11. Put you down. 
  12. Blames world for their problems. 
  13. Show up late for appointments or cancel at the last minute. 
  14. Expect you to always come to them, rather than give-and-take.
  15. Does not listen to your concerns about the relationship or interactions.
  16. They are actively addicted to drugs, alcohol, gambling, sex, etc... 
  17. They need an inordinate amount of attention or high regard from those around them.
  18. They are continually worried about position or rank.
  19. They are overly competitive.
  20. They put you down in any way. 
  21. Try to make you envious by rubbing your nose in their good fortune.
  22. Seem to be envious of you.
  23. Set-up outings with your other friends without inviting you.
  24. Try to create triangles by involving 3rd parties into your disagreements. 
  25. Talk behind your back or gossip about others. 
  26. Continually down, depressed and having catastrophes.
  27. Try to leave you out of the crowd.
  28. Refuse to acknowledge your needs.
  29. Fail to look you in the eye when you're talking. (Look over your shoulder at others instead.)
  30. Lack compassion for what you're going through.
  31. Refuse to share about themselves equally. 
  32. Label you or stereotype you.
  33. Refuse to acknowledge mistakes. 
  34. Refuse to apologize for wrongs. 
  35. Acts entitled to special treatment. 
  36. Manipulative.
  37. Tells lies, exaggerates constantly. 
  38. Down plays your accomplishments.
  39. By your side when you're down, then withdraws from you when you're doing well.
  40. Defensive about everything you do. 
  41. Refuse to validate your perception of reality. 
  42. Attempt to tell you how you feel or tell you how you are. 
  43. Constantly criticizing.
  44. Acts like they worship the ground you walk on one day, then like you don't exist the next. 
  45. Makes you feel worthless. 
  46. Orders you or bosses you around. 
  47. Is overly reliant on parents or another person. 
  48. Won't go out of their way for you, even when you go out of your way for them. 
  49. Ignore your texts, emails or calls at any time. (Big sign of disrespect!)
  50. Does not support you.
  51. Belittles your ambitions. 
  52. Speaks negatively about your friends, job, life. 
  53. Acts like he or she is always in a hurry, with very little time for you.
  54. Acts as though he or she is doing you a favor by talking to you or listening to you.
  55. Treats you as less than if you do not prescribe to their dogma, religion or doctrine. 
  56. Talks bad about those who are mentally ill, sick or hurting. 
  57. Tries to turn you into their administrative assistant (call to remind me, pick-up my cleaning).
  58. Confusing attitudes that change day-by-day.
  59. Does not keep word. 
  60. Seems to be more interested in power than in relationship.
  61. Seems to be more concerned about what others think than about your relationship. 
  62. Treats you as though he or she is angry, without giving explanation. 
  63. Knowingly makes comments that are contrary to your convictions.
  64. Tries to change you. 
  65. Insults your body, clothing, personality or anything about you. 
  66. Not available when you need him or her most. 
  67. Cannot talk about anything other than surface, materialistic or vain topics. 
  68. Does not share information with you that they have that may help you excel in life.
  69. Constantly complains or whines.
  70. Has anger issues, rages, hates.
  71. Plays games.
  72. Judgmental
  73. Continues to ask the same question after you've told them you don't want to answer it. 
  74. Chews you out for no reason. 
  75. Controlling
  76. Uses money or flattery to control you.
  77. Tells you what to do, how to think, what to feel.
  78. Tells you one thing, then denies she said it.
  79. Brings up your faults, flaws or past mistakes.
  80. Brings up topics every time you see them that they know you'd rather not discuss.
  81. Blows up, flies off handle for no reason.
  82. Always needs to be in the center of attention.
  83. Cool toward you when you succeed, get attention or look good.
  84. Taker
  85. Challenges everything you say.
  86. Negative
  87. Black or white thinking - no gray area.
  88. Moves too fast, wants to become instant friends, lovers, in relationship.
  89. Ignores your boundaries. 
  90. Exploits you.
  91. Idealizes you.
  92. Acts pompous towards you.
  93. Acts condescending towards you.
  94. Agrees with your adversaries instead of supporting you.
  95. Acts like they know more than you, better than you about what you need to do in your life. 
  96. Bitter, vindictive or vengeful.
  97. Selfish, stingy.
  98. Rushes you.
  99. Withholds affection
  100. Kicks you when you're down.  
A toxic person can be anyone. A friend, a parent, a sibling, a teacher, a boss or a co-worker. No matter who it is that is toxic in your life, you must set up strong boundaries against them, and potentially remove yourself from their life.  You cannot change them. The tactics of a toxic person siphons away your self-esteem. Life is too short to be depleted by another person. You need all of yourself possible to live your life and grow as a person.

Relationship Spring Cleaning

Do an overhaul of your relationships, a "Spring Cleaning" if you will. You will find that you're not really missing anything if you walk away from a toxic person. Here's an excerpt from Cheryl Richardson's book,"Take Time for Your Life."

Since soulful connections require an investment of time and energy, you'll want to choose the people you spend time with wisely. To determine whether a relationship drains you or fuels you, ask yourself the following questions.

  1. Write down the name of a person in your life.
  2. Am I able to be myself with this person? Do I feel accepted by him/her?
  3. Is this person critical or judgmental of me?
  4. Does the relationship provide an even give-and-take exchange of energy?
  5. Do I feel upbeat and energized when I'm around this person, or depleted and drained?
  6. Does this person share my values? My level of integrity?
  7. Is this person committed to our relationship?
  8. Can this person celebrate my success?
  9. Do I feel good about myself when I'm with this person?
Conclusion

If you suspect that someone is toxic, chances are, you're right. The best thing to do is to go with your gut and trust your intuition. Ignoring your intuition can leave you in a state of confusion. Toxic people are good at playing on your emotions, making you feel ashamed, guilty or obligated to let them treat you with disregard. Don't let that happen! You are a worthwhile person and you deserve to be treated as an equal in ALL RELATIONSHIPS. Don't settle for less. Put up your boundary and pull back or permanently away.

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    45 comments:

    1. Sometimes we hear a term (toxic) and assume we know what it means. This post is helpful to clarify at least for my own understanding exactly what a toxic person is.

      Surely after comparing against this large list of examples, one may go away confidently knowing which corrosive relationships to consider downgrading or even severing. Also, your Relationship Spring Cleaning tool is priceless. Thank you dotJenna!

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    2. Thanks Jenna,

      I needed to find your blog today.. I have shared it on my own blog and also facebook.

      I had to detox someone today.. its liberating to finally honour my Intuition and love myself!!

      Thanks

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    3. You go! I've done it numerous times and now I am surrounded by blissful love. It was hard at first, but the payoff? OMG, there is light, beautiful light at the end of the tunnel. Much love.

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    4. Delighted I've found this site, amazing how the power of recognition and validation for my feeling about some helps me to let go. I thought this person was my friend at first but I lived lon enough to acknowledge my feelings.. So I will let her go and free muself of the toxic input she has had on my life... No more! Thank you very very much :-)

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    5. I have been trying to "detox" a person with whom I have had a toxic relationship for three years. It wasn't all bad, but in the end I found myself becoming just as toxic and I am scared to death. I believed everything she said about me, and made those things a reality. It's a struggle everyday, not to slip down, answer an email, even send a hateful email explaining all what I feel and the disappointment in myself for even being involved. I know thats not healthy nor, am I going to do that because that's being just as toxic and I know this person will never change. Never put forth the effort required to change. It is a huge heartbreak and just a reminder that someone who has so much potential is wasting it away. Until she confronts her past issues, she'll never love herself, and in turn can never love anyone else.
      Sorry this became such an outpouring email. But sometimes I am reminded that I deserve love and I am a good person, no matter what I was made to believe and whom I let myself become from that.

      Thanks again I needed this article/

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    6. OMG so glad i found this site..I am slowly detoxing myself from a person that has been in my life for 4-5 years..the relationship was fine or so i thought..i thought that i was in love..BUT..there were signs. still we moved in together..the signs were more obvious then..it got to the point that i didn't want to come home..the only thing that kept me going was my kids..i found myself also becoming very toxic..hoarding things for comfort..crying..not being able to freely talk about things..the individual was always playing games and now i realize he was tearing me down more and more..but now..he has moved out and i feel the light and smell the air of freedom..now my kids and i are slowly detoxifying ourselves from this individual. not that i didn't have problems from a previous relationship but he also had his..major ones..( his wife sleeping around with other guys his kids acting badly deeply devoted to his job but ignoring his family) ( Me- being sexually abused when younger..married an alcoholic) we both brought our baggage into this relationship..but now its time to get it go .go sit down somewhere and breathe..and support myself and my children to detoxify from R and support each other and get back to life..AMEN.

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    7. Great post, Jenna. Can't see a way to msg you privately - are you aware of the typo in the headline? Might want to remove the "a".

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    8. Interesting as I am about 10 of those things and can become even more if I get one ounce of disrespect from some. I am very courteous of people but mainly I just want to be left alone as I am 100% a Misanthrope.

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    9. Really, this is a laughable list of sometimes-contradictory, oftentimes-normal human qualities that the Shiny Happy People fear and base their facile ostracism upon.

      Yes, shut everybody out of your life who's even obliquely nonconformist - "not true to values or norms of society," don't make me laugh! By that vague standard, you could justify leaving a woman who wouldn't wear a hijab in an Islamic state in the dust.

      I think it's just a reflection of how empty and narcissistic this site is, as well as most of modern American self-help thinking: that the only thing that matters is YOUR OWN personal happiness. Nevermind the psychic pain you cause these people by arbitrarily declaring them "toxic" based on a list with no basis in anything resembling reality; nevermind the fact that other human beings exist, feel the same emotions you do, and are as legitimate (or moreso) as you are.

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      1. Colin, very well put in my opinion. Also, i think if we aren't in touch with our dark side, then we are very likely pretty toxic.

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    10. How do you detox when the toxic person is your mother?

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      1. Kelly,My mother was so toxic that I had to stand up to her many times,she would just keep hurting me with her ignorance and never listened to me at all.Finally at the age of 51 I walked away didn't see her or talk to her for quite some time! I am now 60 years old and I saw her in December 2013 and for the first time in my life I felt at peace sitting in the same room with her! Now that she is 78 years old she finally gets it, She has a daughter and I don't need to be told what to do,how to do it,when to do it! Maybe at some point we can be friends! As a child I never liked her,she blamed me for everything in her life,she was very abusive,not a good mother! No One Says You Have to Like Your Parents! I did love my Dad,my mother No,never felt love from her ever! I have love in my heart so I finally did forgive her and maybe that's why I am at peace now! I wish you Well! <3

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    11. Hi, I don't know if this assessment of Toxic people is your experience Marquis or if it comes from someone else, but whoever wrote this as their experience,,,,,you have learnt a great deal....as I have. I have detached myself from quite a number of toxic people. It is not always easy because quite often they are a friend, but you know that there is something not quite right. The question above from Kelly....How do you detox when the toxic person is you mother....Well, that's a good question and I don't exactly have the answer as I haven't really thought about that one, but what I can say is that it was my mother who put me on the road of destruction that I was on. Starting life with low self esteem, worthlessness, feeling that everyone is better than you, you will never come to anything, you are ignorant, stupid, etc. etc. Leads you along a path of vulnerability. I have learnt a great deal, but it took a long time. That is why I wrote my story, Eva, the darkness in my life. Eva being the name of my mother in my story. Her toxic influence in my young life led me to make bad choices due to my lack of self worth. An abusive husband only compounded the damage she had done to me. How to you detox when it is your mother? I don't know...yet. But I do know that as a young child I was aware of what was happening, and I vowed I would not be like my mother...and I'm not and my children have had a very happy childhood and are now good and decent and loving adults. My story is published on Amazon Kindle Books and I really would love as many people as possible to read it as it was put out there to help - to make people aware of what can happen in your life if you allow toxic people into it. Regards, Sandra..

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    12. WOW my ex was all of the above. Thank you for this article ! Thank You! Thank you!

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    13. Thank you for this. I do need help in this area, and this helps ALOT !!! I just got tired of being stepped on and treated like crap! ~Kath

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    14. This is an excellent site. I totally agree that if something feels off, then it probably is. I'll be reading a lot more of your posts. Learning to spot toxic types before getting in too deep will definitely save you a lot of trouble down the road.

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    15. This is not a good article to base the direction of your relationship on.
      This is an article to consider, and then to consider whether or not you may fit some of the same descriptors.
      There are 100 descriptors.
      ONE HUNDRED!
      Who doesn't fit a certain percentage of these at one time or another?
      This is written as if it has some kind of scientific study behind it.
      It is also written as an advice column from a seemingly bitter journalist.
      Not everyone is bad and no one is perfect.
      If you are in a troubled marriage and read this, do not follow its advice unless you have already tried a marriage counselor...one of faith, at that, and it is agreed that there may be something psychologically wrong with your spouse. Even then, fight for your marriage instead of justifying your victimhood.
      Abuse is another subject.
      It is probably unintended, but this is a potentially harmful article to read in an age where people already quit so many things with so little effort put forth.

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    16. ive heard it said that trying to understand the narcissist is like trying to smell the bottom of a swimming pool.

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    18. After being in relationship with my husband for nine years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email is prophetmiracle1@yahoo.com

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    19. HI AM Kess Clara!! from Australia. with this great tears of joy and happiness in my heart today I want to give an unlimited thanks to this man Called Dr. Trust. I am happy today because my husband is now back with full of love, My husband left me for another woman,just because we had a little misunderstanding. he left me and promise he will never come back to me again. i cry all day looking for a genuine spell caster to help me bring him back. Then i saw a testimony share on the internet by miss Karen. i email him and tell him my problems with my ex husband, and he promise to bring him back home within 2 days. indeed he is wonderful he help me to get my husband back within 2days which he promise and my husband return to me and promise to love me forever and beg me for the pain he cost me. I will forever be grateful to you Dr Trust and i will not stop to publish your name on the internet for people to see how truthful you are. And I want to say to everyone on this site that I will always remain thankful to this man Dr. Trust for all he has done for me,My husband is back with love,caring,truthful and he promise to love me forever.I have made a promise that every body I know will never have a relationship problem, via email (Ultimatespellcast@gmail.com or Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com call him +2348156885231)

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    20. HI AM Kess Clara!! from Australia. with this great tears of joy and happiness in my heart today I want to give an unlimited thanks to this man Called Dr. Trust. I am happy today because my husband is now back with full of love, My husband left me for another woman,just because we had a little misunderstanding. he left me and promise he will never come back to me again. i cry all day looking for a genuine spell caster to help me bring him back. Then i saw a testimony share on the internet by miss Karen. i email him and tell him my problems with my ex husband, and he promise to bring him back home within 2 days. indeed he is wonderful he help me to get my husband back within 2days which he promise and my husband return to me and promise to love me forever and beg me for the pain he cost me. I will forever be grateful to you Dr Trust and i will not stop to publish your name on the internet for people to see how truthful you are. And I want to say to everyone on this site that I will always remain thankful to this man Dr. Trust for all he has done for me,My husband is back with love,caring,truthful and he promise to love me forever.I have made a promise that every body I know will never have a relationship problem, via email (Ultimatespellcast@gmail.com or Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com call him +2348156885231)

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    24. HELLO to my friends out there i am testifying about the good work of a man who help me it has been hell from the day my husband left me i am a woman with two kids my problem stated when the father of my kids travel i never help he was living but as at two weeks i did not set my eye on my husband i try calling but he was not taken my call some week he call me telling me that he has found love some where easy at first i never take to be serous but day after he came to the house to pick his things that was the time i notice that things is going bad i help he will come back but things was going bad day by day i needed to talk to someone about it so i went to his friend but there was no help so i give it up on him month later i met on the the internet a spell caster i never believe on this but i needed my men back so i gave the spell caster my problem at first i never trusted him so i was just doing it for doing sake but after three day my husband called me telling me that he his coming home i still do not believe but as at the six day the father to my kids came to the house asking me to for give him the spell work to said to my self from that day i was happy with my family thanks to the esango priest of (abamieghe)esango priest he his a great man you need to try him you can as well to tell him your problem so that he can be of help to you his content email is this esangopriest@gmail.com indeed you are a priest thank you for making my home a happy home again. remember his email is esangopriest@gmail.com

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    25. Wow i never thought i will be happy in my life ever again, i want you all to thank DR OGUDUGU of GREATOGUDUGU@GMAIL.COM, he is a father that takes care of his children the spell caster of our time, he has saved me from a very ugly situation that almost made my life miserable and i want you all to thank him for me,my husband and i have be married for so many years now with children and the relationship was being threatened by a small girl in his working place,she was almost destroying my home i met so many spell casters but to no avail until i met a friend who came from Africa and she told me about DR OGUDUGU, and i decided to contact him and try him out as i was losing faith in all spell casters, but he told not to worry that now am in his temple everything will be alright he assured me 100% that his spell has no side effects and that it will work straight and save my home and my marriage and after he has performed the sacrifices and casting the spell, my husband came back to us with love and affection and he loved us more and more and he never looked back or none did his love for me waiver, if you are also experiencing this sort of your situation in your home, if your husband is drifting away, if you are experiencing a broken home or you have lost your husband to a young woman outside there then look no further help is here as GREATOGUDUGU@GMAIL.COM is ready to help you out okay for any of your problem is it financial needs, revenge spell, job spell, promotion spell what kind of spell do you need DR OGUDUGU is going to solve it for you okay i have promised him to always talk of his good works to the world in general and to any body who cares to listen, you can email him on his personal email on or GREATOGUDUGU@GMAIL.COM and he will attend to you as soon as possible okay.Traditional Healer, Witchcraft spells , lost love spells , Voodoo spells , Psychic stop cheating in your relationships now with a spell of love protection , lost love spells ,it takes 24hours to start it work 100% guarantee SAME DAY RESULT. HE CAN FIX THE FOLLOWING PROBLEMS TO ALL ACROSS THE GLOBE ON: 1. Getting your lover or husband back 2. Spiritual bulletproof 3. Training 4. Money spell 5. Long life spell 6. Prosperity spell 7. Protection spell 8. Get a job spell 9. Becoming a manager spell 10. Get a huge loan without paying any fee spell 11. Getting your scam money back 12. Child spell 13. Pregnancy spell 14. Freedom spell 15. Love spell 16, vanishing spell 17. Invisible human spell 18. Success or pass spell 19. Marriage spell 20. Avenging spell 21. Popularity spell 22. Killing spell 23. Cancer spell 24. Supernatural power spell 25. Madness spell 26. Free house loan spell 27. Production spell of films and movie 28. Hiv/aids spell 29. Tuberculosis spell 30. Loose weight and body spell. once again his email is or GREATOGUDUGU@GMAIL.COM OR call +2348066421534

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    26. Hello
      I'm giving a testimony about Dr. odion. i won $100,000 in my play lottery, I took an advice from some person who talked about this great spell caster called Dr odion the person placed a testimonies on a blog saying how Dr odion helped him win the lottery by sending him the winning number i was curious and i thought it was all joke not until i contacted this spell caster to know for myself how this work cause i have spend a lot buying tickets and i never win. I contacted him and he told me the necessary thing that need to be done and i did it and he told me to wait for 3days and truly he gave me the winning numbers to play the lottery which i did, Can you believe my name was the first among winners. He told me (my son all i need you to do for me is make sure that you share this testimonies to others so that they can also win the lottery cause i do not have much time to spell on the internet) so that is why i am sharing this testimony with you that if you want to win the lottery this is the way online tips can help you, his email is wisdomspiritualtemple@gmail.com is the only answer to that your problem of winning the lottery

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    27. I am MARIS JOS from USA,i hear how people are talking about The powerful spell caster called DR TRUST in regard of how he bring back ex lover,winning lottery,getting pregnant and getting married to their dream true lover and i also contact him to help me cast a spell in regard of my ex lover whom i love so much that left me 2yrs ago,but today my ex is back to me and we are happily married with 3kids and i am so much happy for the help i found in you DR TRUST. I and my family are very much happy and we are living large now,i am grateful and appreciate your good work of spell casting,thank you and may you leave long to help people in problems His email is Ultimatespellcast@gmail.com or ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com call +2348156885231

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    28. there is nothing to traits you can get cures of all type of trait.

      you should visit;-- Want my boy friend back

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      1. Hello my name is michael,I know a great spell caster who helped me when I
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    29. Hello everyone this really worked and i am proud to testify of it. i saw a post on how a lady got her man back and i decided to try this Dr that helped her because my relationship was crashing. although i never believed in spiritual work i reluctantly tried him because i was desperate but to my greatest surprise Dr Zadson helped me and my relationship is now perfect just as he promised my man now treats me like a queen even when he had told me before he doesn't love me anymore. well, i can not say much but if you are passing through difficulties in your relationship try him here is his email:eduduzadsontemple@yahoo.com of a truth he really helped again his email:eduduzadsontemple@yahoo.com or call +2347050269626

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    30. This is my testimony about the good work of a man who helped me..My name is RUTH ATKINSON. and I base in London.My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end,and was falling apart. Thanks to a spell caster called papa Justus who i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across series of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. There was one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called grace,she testified about how papa Justus brought back her Ex lover in less than 72 hours and at the end of her testimony she drop papa Justus e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give papa a try.

      I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 3 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. papa Justus is really a talented and gifted man and i will not to stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man...If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve that problem for you. Try the great papa Justus today, he might be the answer to your problem. Here's his contact: drabeljustus@gmail.com
      Thank you great Justus. Contact him for the following:

      (1)If you want your ex back.
      (2) if you always have bad dreams.
      (3)You want to be promoted in your office.
      (4)You want women/men to run after you.
      (5)If you want a child.
      (6)[You want to be rich.
      (7)You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
      (8)If you need financial assistance.
      (9)Herbal care
      10)Help bringing people out of prison
      (11)Marriage Spells
      (12)Miracle Spells
      (13)Beauty Spells
      (14)PROPHECY CHARM
      (15)Attraction Spells
      (16)Evil Eye Spells
      (17)Kissing Spell
      (18)Remove Sickness Spells
      (19)ELECTION WINNING SPELLS
      (20)SUCCESS IN EXAMS SPELLS
      (21) Charm to get who to love you.
      (22)Business spell.
      (23) Find your long lost family.
      Contact him today on:
      drabeljustus@gmail.com,
      +2347033354868.
      You can also CONTACT HIM ON whats-app on the same phone number.

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    31. PLEASE BE CAREFULLY IN THIS BLOG, NOT ALL ARE REAL, I JUST LOST $ 1,000 dollars TO A FAKE IMPOSTER. CLAIMING TO BE A REAL SPELL CASTER, BECAUSE I WAS DESPERATELY IN NEED OF HELP TO BRING BACK MY BELOVED HUSBAND BECAUSE I WAS NOT ABLE TO GIVE HIM A CHILD, ALSO TO KEEP MY FAMILY IN PEACE BUT I GOT NOTHING. NOTHING GOOD COMES EASY, FINALLY I HEARD ABOUT THIS MAN CALLED. (Dr Joel Walker) A REAL SPELL CASTER, A GREAT MAN INDEED SO I GAVE HIM ALL TRUST, AND GUEST WHAT? HE TRANSFORMED MY FAMILY BACK IN JUST A WEEK, MY HUSBAND CAME BACK! THAT IS NOT THE END OF THE GREAT SPELL CASTER (Dr Joel Walker) I ALSO TOLD HIM I COULDN’T GIVE BIRTH TO A CHILD AND HE PREPARED A SPELL FOR ME, MY HUSBAND SLEPT WITH ME FOR ALMOST A YEAR NOW ON THE SECOND WEEK I MISSED MY PERIOD AND I WENT TO A LOCAL HOSPITAL AND THE DOCTOR SAID I AM PREGNANT, I WAS SO MAD I COULD NOT CONTROL MY EMOTIONS IN THE CLINIC. THAT’S HOW I GOT MY FAMILY AND LOVE BACK, LIKE BACK THEN WHEN WE STARTED. IF YOU ARE STILL IN THIS CONDITION PLEASE WASTE NO TIME, CONTACT HIM NOW: ( akuzaspiritualtemple@gmail.com ).

      he is specialised in all kind of spell casting such as:
      1. Gettings your lover or husband back.
      2. Spiritual bulletproof
      3. Training
      4. Money spell
      5. Long life spell.
      6. Prosperity spell
      7. Protection spell
      8. Get a job spell.
      9. Becoming a manager spell.
      10. Get a huge loan without paying any fee spell.
      11. Getting your scam money back.
      12. Child spell
      13. Pregnancy spell
      14. Freedom spell
      15. Love spell
      16, vanishing spell.
      17. Invisible human spell.
      18. Success or pass spell.
      19. Marriage spell
      20. Avenging spell
      21. Popularity spell
      22. Killing spell
      23. Cancer spell
      24. Supernatural power spell.
      25. Madness spell
      26. Free house loan spell.
      27. Production spell of films and movie.
      28. Hiv/aids spell
      29. Tubercolosis spell
      30. Loose weight and body spell.
      gambling spell and lot more.

      contact him now and your problem will be solved: akuzaspiritualtemple@gmail.com or tel. number +2347054694406

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    32. All thanks to (wiccanspelltemple@gmail.com)
      Am here to testify what this great spell caster did for me.I never believed in spell casting, until when i was tempted to try it. I and my husband have been having a lot of problems living together, he will always not make me happy because he has fallen in love with another woman outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leaves this woman but the more i talk to him the more he makes me feel sad, so my marriage is now leading to divorce because he no longer gives me attention. so with all this pain and agony, i decided to contact this spell caster to see if things can work out between me and my husband again. this spell caster who was a Great Doctor told me that my husband is really under a great spell that he has been enchanted by some magic, so he told me that he was going to make all things normal again.He did the spell on my husband and after 3 days my husband changed completely, my husband even apologized with the ways he treated me that he was not him self and he was really sorry, i really thank this Doctor his name is Dr Wiccan he had brought my husband back to me i want you all to contact him. If you are having any problem related to marriage issues and relationship problems he will solve it for you. his email is (wiccanspelltemple@gmail.com) he is a Doctor and he is a great Wiccan. wish you good time. He cast spells for different purposes like (1) If you want your ex back. (2) if you always have bad dreams (3) You want to be promoted in your office. (4) You want women/men to run after you. (5) If you want a child. (6) You want to be rich. (7) You want to hold down your husband/wife to be yours forever. (8) If you need financial assistance. (9) HIV/AIDS CURE Contact him today.(wiccanspelltemple@gmail.com) email him he will always reply anytime and on time.

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    33. OMG!!! I am so proud and happy to be out here sharing this remarkable, awesome and extraordinary review of your work Dr Royal. I just can't believe this now my ex Husband is really back to me today feb 14th "VALENTINES DAY" on his knees presenting a ruby rose begging me to take him back and he was feeling regretful and sorry for leaving me and for causing me pains after the divorce which occured last year. And this whole miracle happened after i ordered an urgent 48hours of Dr Royal powerful spell which he cast on me and my husband. Sir I am the happpiest woman today in this whole wide world. Dr Royal you really did it..Yes.. Its a miracle and everlasting pleasure and cheerfulness for me and my family today.. I am so happy now and i dont know how much to convey my thankfulness and appreciation to you sir. And to the whole world, contact him if you need urgent help( Royallovespell@gmail.com )(Royallovespell@yahoo.com) or his website (http://Royallovespell.webs.com) or call him on +2349037171626, now because its guaranteed that he will help you.

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    34. My wedding invite is finally out. all my gratitude goes to dr igodo the great and my loved ones who stood by me when my man abandoned me and ran away with my best friend tried committing suicide twice but failed until a friend anita introduced me to dr igodo at first i had doubt because when he told me i felt it was just too easy for a man that ran away with my friend to come back to me within 24hrs i said no way but be hold people after 24 hrs that dr igodo cast the spell my man called me and said i should forgive him that he was under a spell.
      we are getting married in 2 weeks time and i have invited dr igodo for the wedding just hope he will not be too busy to come celebrate with us for i owe my happiness to him.
      using this post to say a big thank you to him and to also make his contact public to the whole world in case his help is needed.
      this are his personal contact : docigodo@yahoo.com or +2348169138446.
      Lisa Dawn from Canada

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    35. I will like to share my testimony to you all.i just got married to my husband about a year ago we start having problems at home like we stop sleeping on the same bed, fighting about little things he always comes home late at night, drinking too much and sleeping with other women out side.i have never love any man in my life except him.he is the father of my children and I don't want to loose him because we have worked so hard together to become what we are and have today.few month ago he now decided to live me and the kid, being a single mother can be hard sometimes and so I have nobody to turn to and I was heart broken.i called my mom and explain every thing to her, my mother told me about Dr Jatto how he helped her solve the problem between her and my dad I was surprise about it because they have been without each other for three and a half years and it was like a miracle how they came back to each other.i was directed to Dr Jatto and explain everything to him, so he promise me not to worry that he will cast a spell and make things come back to how we where so much in love again and that it was another female spirit that was controlling my husband.he told me that my problem will be solved within two days if I believe I said OK.So he cast a spell for me and after two days my love came back asking me to forgive him.i Am so happy now. so that why I decided to share my experience with every body that have such problem contact him email. drjattosplltemple@gmail.com or call him on his number 09035512062.

      1. GETTING YOUR EX LOVER BACK.
      2. WINNING LOTTERIES.
      3. CHILD BEARING.
      4. BREAKING OF GENERATION COURSE.
      5. GETTING OF JOB.
      6. JOB PROMOTION.
      7. MONEY SPELL.
      8. SPIRITUAL PROTECTION.
      9. HERBAL CARE.
      10. BEAUTY SPELL.

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    36. My name is JOY EDWIN from UK .I am here to give testimony on how I got my husband back. My husband left me for no reason 3 years ago. He moved in with another woman, I felt like killing myself, my life became very bitter and sorrowful. Then 1 day, a friend of mine told me about a great spell caster that is very good and, he said he gave him some lucky numbers that he played in a lottery and he won. I didn't believe it because I've worked with so many of them and it didn't work. He begged me further so I decided to try this great spell caster called DR OBEYED. I still didn't believe. I used the spell he gave me and the next day I received a call from my darling husband Thomas last month. He apologized and came back to me. He even gave me 10,000USD as a means of compensating me. I'm very happy now. Thank you DR OBEYED, You can reach him via email:drobeyedspellcaster@gmail.com

      He can solve any problem like,
      (1) If you want your ex back.
      (2) you need a divorce in your relationship.
      (3) You want to be promoted in your office.
      (4) You want women & men to run after you.
      (5) If you want a child.
      (6) You want to be rich.
      (7) You want to tie your husband & wife to be yours forever.
      (8) If you need financial stance.
      (9) He can make you pregnancy.
      (10) He can cure you from any diseases.
      (11) He can cure Deafness

      Contact him now, and smile forever :drobeyedspellcaster@gmail.com

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    37. My name is JOY EDWIN from UK .I am here to give testimony on how I got my husband back. My husband left me for no reason 3 years ago. He moved in with another woman, I felt like killing myself, my life became very bitter and sorrowful. Then 1 day, a friend of mine told me about a great spell caster that is very good and, he said he gave him some lucky numbers that he played in a lottery and he won. I didn't believe it because I've worked with so many of them and it didn't work. He begged me further so I decided to try this great spell caster called DR OBEYED. I still didn't believe. I used the spell he gave me and the next day I received a call from my darling husband Thomas last month. He apologized and came back to me. He even gave me 10,000USD as a means of compensating me. I'm very happy now. Thank you DR OBEYED, You can reach him via email:drobeyedspellcaster@gmail.com

      He can solve any problem like,
      (1) If you want your ex back.
      (2) you need a divorce in your relationship.
      (3) You want to be promoted in your office.
      (4) You want women & men to run after you.
      (5) If you want a child.
      (6) You want to be rich.
      (7) You want to tie your husband & wife to be yours forever.
      (8) If you need financial stance.
      (9) He can make you pregnancy.
      (10) He can cure you from any diseases.
      (11) He can cure Deafness

      Contact him now, and smile forever :drobeyedspellcaster@gmail.com

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    38. seeing is believing. i have seen and tested the powers of great dr igodo.
      i left home for just 3 weeks on a course in the the Uk Scotland to be precise. was coming home happy cus i had miss my fiancee and could not wait to see. i got to the airport and waited for 3 hours she did not show up that was where i began to suspected foul play.
      ordinarily she had my flight details and on a normal day sh would come to the airport to welcome me with flowers. was so sad and did not see her until the next 3 days. Even when i saw her she just said she had moved on and wanted me to do same. it felt strange so i looked for help online and met dr igodo.
      he told me that my woman was seeing an Indian guy and he used voodoo on her i believed because everything was just so sudden.
      to cut the story short he did a spell removal and he came back to her senses just want to tell the world that dr igodo is truly a great man with great powers. i am a happy man today again because of him. if you a guy or a lady and you have similar issues contact him on email docigodo@yahoo.com or phone: +2348169138446.
      Name : Philip Donaldson
      Location : Lancaster PA USA

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