We
don't need to be more. We often feel that to get love we have be more.
Be more of what? Have you ever asked yourself this? Have you noticed
that the more you chase people and try and force them to love you that
all they do is become more distant from you. It is important that we
understand that those who constantly seek love from others only find
their lovelessness. Those who ARE love and loving as people never have
to seek it for they always have it.
If you have to chase someone for
their love, or you have to go out and get caught up in seeking their
approval by saying "look at me...look at what a good
girlfriend/boyfriend I am, or look at what a good mom or dad I am , or
look at what a good friend I am, or look at what a good employee I am"
you will end up in an even lower place.
Why is it that we are so caught
up in having the approval of other people? Are we any less of a person
if we do not have their approval? Is our worth dependent
upon others? If we realize that we are not separate from love then we
do not have to do anything to get it. Love yourself. That is where
you need to start when it comes to love.
Dark people are always going
to be out there trying to let you know you are not enough and the only
way they will have any power is if you believe that you are not
loveable. If you know you are love and you know that you shine and that
you come from love then no one will have the power to dim your light.
You do not need to be more. You do not need to do anything to get love
because you are love. You do not need to try so hard. All you need to
remember is your most original state was love, it has never left, you
just have to remember that and love yourself..
We
don't need to be more. We often feel that to get love we have be more.
Be more of what? Have you ever asked yourself this? Have you noticed
that the more you chase people and try and force them to love you that
all they do is become more distant from you. It is important that we
understand that those who constantly seek love from others only find
their lovelessness. Those who ARE love and loving as people never have
to seek it for they always have it.
If you have to chase someone for
their love, or you have to go out and get caught up in seeking their
approval by saying "look at me...look at what a good
girlfriend/boyfriend I am, or look at what a good mom or dad I am , or
look at what a good friend I am, or look at what a good employee I am"
you will end up in an even lower place.
Why is it that we are so caught
up in having the approval of other people? Are we any less of a person
if we do not have their approval? Is our worth dependent
upon others? If we realize that we are not separate from love then we
do not have to do anything to get it. Love yourself. That is where
you need to start when it comes to love.
Dark people are always going
to be out there trying to let you know you are not enough and the only
way they will have any power is if you believe that you are not
loveable. If you know you are love and you know that you shine and that
you come from love then no one will have the power to dim your light.
You do not need to be more. You do not need to do anything to get love
because you are love. You do not need to try so hard. All you need to
remember is your most original state was love, it has never left, you
just have to remember that and love yourself..
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