Life
is about healing. When we are hurting we have to remind ourselves that
we are not hurting...we are healing.
Life is about change and change
almost always involves some type of loss. It is often hard to see this
loss not as a loss but as a new beginning. This just takes time.
Every
loss is a new beginning but we cannot skip over the loss part of the
equation so we must enter into a time of
healing. Here is the thing about healing, we do not usually get to
decide how long it will take and most of us would love to push the
river. When we are healing we are on "healing's time" (I discuss this
in my book in detail).
Healing's time is Divine time. We should never
want to cut our healing short because if we do we lose essential growth
opportunities. However, we must also be mindful not to stay stuck and
suffer needlessly over our own suffering. Healing is about growth and
growth is about movement so as you heal and nurture yourself, do it
actively so there is movement forward involved.
Everything outside of
us that we are attached to is temporary so when there has been a loss do
not get in denial about it. Accept it. It is real. I has happened
and you must deal with it. I see so many people who resists this
process. We must not resist, but allow ourselves to surrender. The
good is ALWAYS on it's way so as you are healing and growing keep this
in mind. The Universe has a need to fill up all empty spaces and if you
are focused on loving yourself your empty spaces will be filled up with
more love. If you are focused on resisting the Universe will not be on
your side and your empty spaces will be filled up with more pain to give
you the opportunity to surrender. Doesn't this make loving yourself
and accepting the reality of your healing to be the best choice in the
direction of improving your self worth? Accept and surrender.
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