I love this post by Sherrie Campbell because it reiterates what I was thinking myself lately. You have to learn to trust your heart, no matter what. Sometimes that means going in the wrong direction, but the important thing is that you trusted you, and you can never practice if you don't start somewhere...
By Sherrie Campbell, PhD
Why
do we doubt ourselves so often? So often we don't use our own inner
wisdom for our answers. We are always looking outside. We either want
others to make decisions so we don't have to be responsible for them, or
we are too afraid to make any decisions and so we wait. In either
situation happiness is not likely because we are not in charge.
Happiness comes from trusting ourselves. If we cannot trust ourselves to
be deliberate about our own happiness then we cannot expect to
cultivate it. Trusting ourselves may mean we take a few wrong turns
until we set our compass straight. Mistakes can be extremely painful but
if we take them and learn they are no longer mistakes but wisdom
guides. Remember that most people outside of you have an agenda when
they are advising and that agenda may have more to do with them then
with you. Take the advice in, but check inside yourself if this is a
decision that is in line with your authentic desires. What if their
agenda isn't correct for you and you go off and make an ill advised
decision which destroys your life...then how do you fix it? Most don't.
Most avoid at this point and do nothing, not knowing how to take
responsibility for their hastiness. The value of loving yourself is you
must be brave enough to screw up your life now and again, take
responsibility for it, re-set your compass and try again. Each time you
have the courage to trust your own insights, the better the decisions in
life you will make. It is well worth it to be brave and risk being
wrong to learn how to be happy.
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