If you are looking for love, validation and support from the narcissist, you are wise to look elsewhere. The narcissist will reel you in b...

It is possible for someone to BUILD YOU UP, yet invalidate your existence at the same time. This occurs when someone you trust, someone yo...

Invalidation is damaging to the soul of the one being invalidated. Abused individuals are conditioned from childhood to believe that their o...

One of the big wake-up calls I had was about the concept of INVALIDATION. I never understood it before, but I found, as I started coming o...

It's one thing to keep friends together, but some friends are not worth keeping!!! It doesn't matter how long you've known a ...

Narcissistic De-Selfing Photo by Lennie Sparrow - Deviant Art Narcissists feel like other people are an extension of themselves. Th...

Invalidation is one of the central methods of covert narcissistic abuse. The Narcissist simply CANNOT validate anyone consistently. For...

This is a really good post by Wounded Child Coaching. So good, in fact, that I decided to share it with you here. Take care, Jenna ...

I'm writing this article to give you awareness about the many ways in which we abandon ourselves. Self abandonment is at epidemic pr...

One of the epiphanies discovered on my road to loving myself is how to steer clear of relationships that are harmful and that deplete my se...

INVALIDATION is the root of codependency. Our true selves, our personal truth was not validated... If we want to heal we must REPARE...

Group Member asked: "I still don't know what my truth is though. How do you get in touch with your core truth? One 'truth...